Contrary to semi-popular belief, there are a few reasons why gay people probably shouldn't get married.
The first is because they're not romantically in love with the person whom they are marrying.
It breaks my heart to hear stories about spouses who are blindsided by the fact that their hubby or wife is gay. Then the couple often divorces so that the homosexual party can live an honest life that includes being attracted to, falling in love with, and even marrying someone whom they are truly in love with on all levels.
Everyone has to make their own choices in life, but I hope anyone contemplating marrying someone under these kinds of false pretenses will reconsider.
Join the conversation about love on Twitter!
When a Spouse Comes Out of the Closet
Deborah Moskovitch - @TheSmartDivorce
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/deborah-moskovitch/when-a-spouse-comes-out-o_b_830214.html
Finding Out Your Spouse is Gay
Susan Pease Gadoua - @SPGadoua
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/contemplating-divorce/201201/finding-out-your-spouse-is-gay
Gay Love: When a Husband or Wife Comes Out
Amy Bloom - @AmyBloomBooks
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2010/feb/20/coming-out-husband-wife
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